Are you Attracting Commitment Phobic Men..?

You can think of it as an attraction savings account. When he is head-over-heals about you, he puts a BIG deposit in the attraction savings account.

Each time you try to convince a guy, change his mind, and TELL him how he's supposed to feel about you, he withdraws from that attraction savings account. Little by little, that attraction savings account becomes smaller. Until one day, it's completely empty and poof, he's gone!

When a woman tries to convince a man to like her, it annoys the heck out of him. A man immediately goes into a RESISTANT mode. He shuts down! Then, he gets annoyed every time a woman tries to show him how perfect she is for him. When a man feels annoyed, he immediately takes away a little of the attraction he feels towards you.

So, the best way to make a man stay interested in you is to:

(1) stop doing CONVINCING and other annoying things that will make him withdraw from that attraction savings account

(2) start doing things that grow the attraction savings account, and ...

(3) once that attraction savings account has enough deposits in it, a man is going to start thinking about a future with you and you alone. Ahem, but, stop dreaming for a second. To get to step 3, we have to begin with step 1. and learn how to deal with Commitment Phobic Men.